My Opinion On Early Marriage

Don't have a kid, if you're still a kid


Marriage is something that requires time and wisdom beyond pure knowledge of its nature. This thing must be seriously considered by the majority- especially the young people.

Marriage is a legally-sanctioned relationship involving economic cooperation and normative sexual activities with child-bearing in which the people expect to endure. Base upon this fact, people of young ages must not put themselves or even attempt to engage into to this serious phenomena of human life. Always say no to early marriage, this has no positive outcome. It is a curse for the concerned ones. All it brings are negative implications. The only pleasure it brings is the reality that young people are getting married just to have sex. After which,.... then WHAT? Sufferings of endless moral, emotional, physical, spiritual and even financial crisis follow. It is true indeed!

One thing to consider young people, we all must get married because we want to spend the rest of our lives with the one we truly love and treasure. Don't rush things out. Take time to put things into proper perspectives. As young as we are, let's just enjoy the benefits of being a teenager. Do not get stuck with the concept of engaging ones self into early marriage - NEVER!

What I want to achieve in the Future

The Road Of Life

I am an ambitious individual. My entire life has been regulated by my goals and aspirations. Without it, I can never be considered alive and functional. I live life because I want to achieve something, for me to have the right to call myself worthy.

I have a lot of ambitions for now. First on the list, is to be a DEAN of the college of Education in a prestigious university someday. Next, is to build a family with my one and only special guy whom I truly love. Then, to repay my mother of her sacrifices. And finally, to send my nieces and nephews to school and have them academically-equipped. I will be one of the happiest people if I will be able to achieve these aspirations. I believe I will then be tagged worthy of my existence.

I live by the virtue that I have to set goals, for me to have a definite direction along with my journey in the messy road of life. I will be able to achieve these all; I have a strong faith that with God, I CAN...!!!

The Fear Inside Me

Have you ever thought of seeing yourself in the midst of a relationship wherein trust has already been taken away for some reasons that governs teenage life? How would you handle it? Do you have what it takes to fix trust after it has been broken?

It’s controversial indeed, but this question creates a certain fear in my heart. In which I really want keep away from circumstances like this. This fear starts the moment I chose to enter the chaotic kingdom of love. I could still remember the moment when I end up being a stranger even if I know for the fact that it may endanger my student life. I am blind of this reality for in spite the fact that I already know the possible consequences I still insist to pursue this yearnings of mine. Never did it come from my expectations that I will be stuck in a serious relationship that could depreciate me entirely.
My decision of saying yes to commitment (boyfriend-girlfriend relationship) never appears to be that easy. It takes me enough time and courage to eventually throw on a fixed resolution. Being young and immature always bother me, I hate when I see myself in trouble of issues like this. I wasn’t brought up equipped with knowledge and skills to handle these concerns. Even if my discrepancies seems to be vividly implicated, I still took the risk of saying “Yes” to my special boy.
See, how arduous it is for me to decide on this matter? It is like a matter of life and death- what an exaggeration, but its true indeed! An innocent young adult as I am, on my way upon accepting the challenge, comes a variety of superb expectations that our relationship will work for a long period of time. Who would have ever thought that I am not certain of his love, if in the first place he is showing exceptional acts of love and care? Overwhelmed as I am, I trust him even if there is something inside of me that dictates me not to do so.
I venture my trust unto our relationship with the hope of making it work for a long period of time. That it may guarantee me the fulfillment of my aim that it will serve as my inspiration as I traverse the messy road of my teenage life.
I admit it, the fear that this relationship will be put into trash troubles me every now and then, but I have to face it with vigor and the best way to start doing such is to simply trust him that he will take good care of me throughout the days. And that he will never hurt me. And finally he will love me more that how much I love him. I know I am oblige to shower him with the trust he requires from me which is not too much but also not less than what is expected of me. Behind this, is the fear that still remains to be a curse that annoyed, annoying and will always keep on annoying me.
What could really take this fear away from me? Nothing less but these words of inspiration from my boyfriend which he remarkably chose to believe in, that I may not always trust the person I love but I can always love the person whom I trust. It may not totally wipe the fear away but at least it gave me reasons to go on.
This struggle of mine leads me to realizations that, you have to take time, lots of time, to let an idea grow from within and when you sign on to something, along with fear, there will be issues of trust, deep trust to one another to make it work accordingly.

Searching For you

Heartaches and pains exasperate me

My fate seems to play a joke on me

I dont know how it all started,

But I hate it when my love is wasted

I tried to look for someone

A guy who stands as the only one

Who would traet me like no other

A guy whose love is pure and tender

One moment in my life I found him

What a mysterious guy as he seem

But something inside tells me

I'll be secured of his company

I’m Not a Girl, Not Yet a Woman

I am now in the stage of life called adolescence, wherein I am encountering a dilemma- identity crisis. I always catch myself in confusion. I still don’t know myself entirely. I need others to supplement my self analysis. Here’s a glimpse at my possessed personality.

“I’m already 17, yet I still couldn’t consider myself as a lady, but I know I’m no longer worthy to be considered as a girl.” Then, who really am I?

What shines the most in me is my strong sense of purpose. I am an ambitious individual, I keep on dreaming and aspiring, I just love to see myself visualising the future that lies ahead. My goals are many, they cover my entire being, and these things regulate me. Without these, I could have been considered as the most worthless person ever exists. The passion is burning inside me- I want to be an educator, a journalist, and a doctor, I have all of these as my future professions because I am inclined into public service. It’s a fulfilment when I am able to help others even without expecting anything in return.

How can I grant these yearnings of mine, if my personality also reflects my discrepancies, weaknesses and negative attributes? I hate myself of being so impatient and strict- when these things put me into stress, displaced aggression ad my coping mechanism. I just couldn’t escape from the complications that it may bring, for these might jeopardize my healthy mind setting of a bright future that lies ahead.

These are the two sides of my personality. Upon assessing, my analysis tells me to grow and live life according to my desired purpose. I have to be innovative; I must not implement too much initiative, for I really have the tendency to be ruthless. It’d not on what will I do, but it really matters on how I categorize my attributes according to relevance and eventually develop those. I have to handle myself considering my strengths and limitations.
Then, who really am I? Well, I am still a young adult, who keeps on dreaming and aiming to become a lady with a designated purpose to serve the public. These goals motivate me to overcome my weaknesses and eventually become a well-developed being.